An etiquette expert and a massage therapist reveal tipping advice for when, how and how much to tip for a massage
Angel Rodriguez didn’t get her first massage until she was 40 years old—because she says she had no idea what to expect, including how much to tip for a massage.
“My husband gave me a gift card for my birthday, and it took me six months to work up the nerve to use it. I was that freaked out,” says 42-year-old Rodriguez, who lives in Staten Island, New York. “When I first walked in, the massage therapist told me to ‘undress to your comfort level,’ and I was like, ‘Ma’am, nothing about this is comfortable!'”
Rodriguez says her massage therapist looked her straight in the eye and told her to take a deep breath and relax or “I might as well light my gift card on fire, and if my husband wanted to gift me a bonfire, he would have.” The comment made her laugh, and that’s when she knew she’d found the right massage therapist for her. Since then, she’s been going back once a month—and she always makes it a point to leave a great tip.
But what, exactly, is the tipping etiquette when it comes to massage therapy? Does it differ from how much to tip a hairdresser or how much to tip at a nail salon? And do you always have to tip, or is tipping etiquette different around the world? Rodriguez is certainly not alone in her confusion and discomfort when it comes to how to tip for a massage, but that’s no reason to miss out on what she calls “one of the biggest little pleasures of life.” So we asked experts to share everything you need to know about how much to tip for a massage.
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Is it customary to tip for a massage?
In the United States, massage therapists may work privately, at a spa or as part of a medical office. They can be paid per session or hourly, and they’re usually not getting all of the money you’re paying for a treatment. Let’s say your deep-tissue massage costs $80. A tip isn’t included in that bill, and much of the fee goes to the spa or medical facility, with your massage therapist getting only a percentage. Tips can make a huge difference to how much they bring home each night.
“You should always tip something after a massage—it’s rude not to,” says Beth Rose, a licensed massage therapist and business owner in Kennewick, Washington. “We are providing a service. Plus, massage is hard physical work! A good tip gives us an incentive to serve you better the next time.”
And speaking of tipping requirements, don’t forget that you need to tip for pizza delivery too!
How much should you tip for a massage?
Basic etiquette rulessayto tip 20% of the bill, according to Valerie Sokolosky, an etiquette expert and the author of Do It Right, a comprehensive etiquette guide. “Trust that the massage therapist or their boss will adjust charges based on the services rendered and the time, so you don’t need to calculate anything extra beyond the flat percentage,” she explains.
For instance, a regular massage may be $50 for 60 minutes, in which case you would tip $10, making your total cost $60. The same spa may offer a 90-minute deep-tissue massage for $200, making your tip $40 and your final cost $240.
If you feel like the massage therapist went above and beyond in providing excellent service, feel free to tip more, up to 25% or 30%, Sokolosky adds.
How should you tip for a massage?
“Most massage therapists prefer to be tipped in cash,” says Rose, adding that you can give the cash directly to the therapist at the end of your appointment. “Cash is immediate, so you don’t have to wait for your paycheck, and they don’t take taxes out.”
That said, it’s perfectly fine to add a tip on your credit card bill if that is your preference, she adds.
Should you tip if you’re using a coupon or gift certificate?
Yes, you should tip at least 20% based on the regular cost of the service, even if you’re using a coupon or gift certificate, says Sokolosky. So if a massage normally costs $100, tip $20 even if you have a coupon that discounts the massage to $90 or a gift card that covers the full cost. Skipping or reducing a tip when using a coupon is one of the most common etiquette mistakes, so be sure you don’t fall into that trap!
The one exception? Some gift-givers choose to include the tip in the amount they put on a gift card. They might give you a $60 gift certificate to use on a $50 Swedish massage, noting in the card that the gift is good for “one massage and $10 tip.” In that case, you don’t need to tip even more.
How much should you tip for a massage during the holidays?
It isn’t standard to tip more for a massage during the holidays, but if you have a regular relationship with a particular therapist, a holiday bonus is a nice gesture.The question, of course, is how much to tip for a massage in this case. Sokolosky suggests giving an amount equal to the cost of one appointment. Put cash in an envelope with a nice thank-you note.
You may also want to consider tipping a little more for other special occasions and services, like a honeymoon couples’ massage or an in-home visit. “It’s not expected, but it is a nice surprise,” says Rose.
Do you have to tip if the massage therapist is the spa owner?
This is a bit of a gray area, says Rose, who owns her own spa. “I don’t expect people to really tip when they come to me,” she says. “I set the prices at what I think is fair, and I have little overhead, so the whole price of the massage goes straight to me. But everyone tips anyway, which I really appreciate.”
Do you have to tip for a massage at an all-inclusive resort?
“All-inclusive” means that tipping isn’t required. That said, most people will still tip service workers, including massage therapists, a small amount, perhaps $5 to $10.
Rather than tipping after every massage, it’s customary to tip once at the end of your resort stay, says Rose, adding that it’s best to hand cash directly to your massage therapist. The same is true for other service workers, such as hotel housekeeping.
Do you need to tip if your massage wasn’t great?
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Your massage therapist went to town with the face massage tools, and you weren’t into it at all. We’ve all been there, wondering how much to tip for a less-than-stellar massage—and whether we could skip out without leaving a tip at all. Know this: You should still tip your massage therapist even if you weren’t 100% satisfied, says Sokolosky.
Rose agrees. “You should always tipsomething,” she says. “They usually do at least one or two things right even if the whole thing isn’t perfect.”
And the next time you get a massage, save yourself a bad experience by speaking up. According to Rose, a good massage therapist will check in with you regularly during the massage to make sure it’s a good experience. “I ask questions throughout the session to make sure they’re happy and adjust if needed,” she says. “If you are unhappy with something, you should speak up right then so we can fix it.”
When should you skip a tip?
Massage therapists who work in medical settings—think chiropractic offices, physical therapy practices and hospitals—usually don’t get tips, says Sokolosky. The massage is considered a medical treatment, and the bill goes through insurance, so you don’t pay anything at the time of service.
Massage therapists in medical settings are often paid a salary or an hourly rate, regardless of whether or not they have clients, so all payment is taken care of by the employer, says Rose.
If all this talk of tipping has you opting for a DIY massage instead, give one of these ahh-mazing scalp massagers a try.
Sources:
- Angel Rodriguez, regular spa customer
- Beth Rose, licensed massage therapist and business owner in Kennewick, Washington
- Valerie Sokolosky, etiquette expert and author of Do It Right
FAQs
How much do you tip for a 60-minute massage? ›
In general, the 20% rule applies to tipping your massage therapist. So, if you're wondering how much to tip for a $100 massage, you'd want to tip $20. If you're considering how much to tip for a 60-minute massage (that costs $100) – you'd still tip $20.
How much do you tip for a $100 massage? ›The standard hospitality rate for massage tipping is 20 percent. For example, if a massage or body treatment costs $100, a 20 percent tip would be $20.
How much should you tip for a $80 massage? ›“We recommend tipping 15% – 20% based on each client's comfort and satisfaction with the massage,” said Meng. Luckily for Soothe, their clients have increased the average tipping percentage in 2021 from 18 to 20 percent. So if a 60-minute massage costs $80, the tip would be $12 to $16.
How much do you tip for a $50 massage? ›For instance, a regular massage may be $50 for 60 minutes, in which case you would tip $10, making your total cost $60. The same spa may offer a 90-minute deep-tissue massage for $200, making your tip $40 and your final cost $240.
Is it rude not to tip a massage therapist? ›Do You Tip a Massage Therapist? Although a tip is never required, if your massage is at a spa or hotel in North America, a 20 percent tip is standard if you were pleased with the service. (The exception is all-inclusive spas that have a no-tip policy.)
Is $10 a good tip for massage? ›The standard tipping rate for a massage is 20%. So, for a $50 massage, you can tip $10. You can increase or lower your tip depending on how satisfied you are with their services.
How much do you tip for a sensual massage? ›Standard tip rate
The general guideline on tipping for a massage is around 25 percent of the total cost. It's a standard that's pretty similar to tipping at a restaurant. At a minimum, an appropriate massage tip is around 20 percent of the cost of the massage.
- Ask your massage therapist to go see a movie / come to your house / etc. ...
- Excessive noises. ...
- Comment on our looks/attractiveness. ...
- Poke your head out of the room to let us know you're ready. ...
- Start undressing while we are still in the room. ...
- Touch us.
To keep your body in good condition and maintain health, we recommend getting a massage every 3-4 weeks. This will help to prevent injury, pain, and tension build-up in the muscle fibers, as well as address any other issue before it becomes serious.
How much do you tip for a 75 minute massage? ›We spoke to two etiquette experts, who suggested leaving a 15% to 20% tip, if you're able. Twenty percent is generous for the massage therapist and easy on the brain, which may be feeling more relaxed than ever after a massage. The math is straightforward. To find 20%, start by finding 10%, then double that amount.
How much do you tip on a 500 massage? ›
Some independent massage therapists charge all-inclusive rates for their services, but generally tipping 20 percent for spa services like massages, facials and more is advised.
How much do you tip on a $125 massage? ›15-20% of the bill, including drinks. 10% unless their credit card machine is "broken", then no tip.
What do I wear for a massage? ›It's best to leave heavy fabrics, such as denim or wool, at home and choose lighter clothes that are thin and form-fitting. Some suitable options include t-shirts, tank tops, shorts or sports bras. Even if you prefer to cover up, make sure you've considered the limitations placed on your massage therapist.
What is massage etiquette? ›“Make sure you're clean before coming in for a massage,” says Waluga. Really, it's only polite to consider the comfort of the person who's going to be all up in your business. If you can't take a quick rinse-off, try to at least wipe yourself down with unmedicated, chemical-free wipes.
Why do you tip massage therapists? ›Tipping is generally expected in a spa setting. This is because, as I mentioned before, many spas pay their therapists a base rate that is lower than average. Spas also employ estheticians, so it's customary for the client to tip each of their service providers at their spa visit.
Is it rude to not talk during a massage? ›Definitely not! We love a bit of quiet time as well, it lets us focus on you. For people who find it difficult to accept the silence and relax, bringing the focus to your breath and the calming music will definitely help. Calm your mind and enjoy the feeling of tension being massaged out of your body.
Do I tip massage therapist at chiropractor? ›While tipping a massage therapist is common practice at a spa, you don't need to do that here. Chiropractors are not massage therapists, and don't require a tip. Treat them as you would any other doctor who was providing you with a medical service.
How much should you tip on a $110 massage? ›15-20% of the bill, including drinks. 10% unless their credit card machine is "broken", then no tip.
How much do you tip for $30 pedicure? ›How much should you tip for a pedicure? Toes are no different than fingers when it comes to nail care. That means you should follow the same etiquette for how much to tip for a pedicure—15 to 20%—says Wilson.
Do you tip at massage Envy? ›You should tip what you feel is appropriate. 20% of the cost is the “norm", but as a Massage Envy therapist, I'm happy when I get $20 for a one hour, or $35 for a 90 minute.
Should you shave before a massage? ›
It is not important to shave before a massage. Your therapist doesn't care or even notice. The only exception to this rule is if you are having Kinesio Taping, then you must do it 24 hours in advance to avoid skin irritation. If less than 24 hours, use clippers only.
What's the best time to get a massage? ›To get maximum benefits from your massage, schedule your massage when you are less busy. For instance, you can go for your massage in the morning before reporting to work, during your lunch break or in the evening, whichever works for you.
What parts of the body should not be massaged? ›- Cuts or open wounds.
- Bruises.
- Varicose veins.
- Broken bones.
- Burns.
- Some skin conditions.
Shower. While your intentions might be in the right place, a hot shower prior to your massage is actually not recommended. “A hot rinse right before your massage can increase your circulation as well and your chances of sweating through the session.
How long should a good massage last? ›Typically massage therapy should be at least 50 minutes to one hour for a general full body treatment to be effective. Some establishments offer forty-five and fifty minute sessions.
What's the best thing to do after a massage? ›- DRINK WATER. Massage increases your blood circulation and hydrates your muscle tissues. ...
- STRETCH. ...
- EAT. ...
- REST. ...
- HAVE A BATH. ...
- WELCOME ANY EMOTIONS. ...
- PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR BODY'S REACTION. ...
- URINATE.
A typical massage can be as short at 10 minutes, or as long as two hours. Most often, you will hear people asking for a half hour, hour or ninety minute session.
Do you tip a massage therapist covered by insurance? ›You tip your nail tech and hair stylist but not your massage therapist. RMTs are professionals and just as you don't tip your doctor, dentist or teacher, you do not tip your massage therapist.
How much do you tip a hairdresser? ›The minimum level of tip that most customers give their stylist is 10%, but some go as high as 25%. The majority of customers, however, take a middle ground and tip around 20% of the bill.
Do you tip if gratuity is included? ›Others may automatically include gratuity when the bill is drawn. If either of these instances is the case, then no, you do not need to tip on top of this price. However, if the service was exceptional and you had a wonderful experience, an additional tip is never a bad idea.
How much do you tip a hairdresser on $150? ›
$25 service = $5 tip. $50 service = $10 tip. $100 service = $20 tip. $150 service = $30 tip.
How much do you tip a hairdresser on $120? ›Remember the golden rule: "You should tip 20 percent on the entire service cost, not per individual," says Schweitzer. So if your haircut and blow-dry cost $40 total, and your color was $60, your total service cost comes to $100. That means you should tip $20 divided between the colorist and stylist.
How much do you tip a hairdresser on $300? ›"Tip 20 percent on the true total cost of the service, not the discounted cost," Schweitzer says. "The hairdresser did the same amount of work, so they deserve the same amount of tip."
What not to do before a massage? ›- Don't Sunburn. ...
- Don't "Caffeinate" ...
- Don't Eat a Large Meal. ...
- Don't Run a Marathon. ...
- Don't Apply Lotion or Oil. ...
- Don't Apply Topical Medications, Patches or Tapes. ...
- Don't Take Prescription Pain Medication.
Whether you receive an oil massage, aromatherapy, or reflexology, the answer is to not shower before a massage or after. Leave a few hour buffer period before doing so. When in the shower or a bath, the surface of the skin has increased blood circulation, which after a massage can lead to surface congestion.
Should you wear a bra to a massage? ›Therapists can work around bra's if kept on, but it's not ideal. If you want the front of your shoulders seen to, it's okay to keep your bra on and a good therapist will have your lady parts covered with a towel. Wearing sports shorts or short tights are both fine for your sports massage.
What do you take off during a massage? ›You'll want to strip down to just your undies. Take off your bra—it'll get in the way of the back massage and who can relax with underwire poking you anyway? Also, if it's just an upper body massage, you can leave your socks on, otherwise, slip them off so the therapist can work on your soles.
What to do before a massage? ›- Stay Hydrated. Being well hydrated before your massage is very important for the elimination of toxins that are released into the body's circulation during treatment. ...
- Eat Lightly. ...
- Take a Hot Shower. ...
- Dress Comfortably. ...
- Arrive in Advance. ...
- Communicate your Needs. ...
- Relax during the massage.
A 60 minute full body massage typically starts with a head & scalp massage to get you relaxed. Then, they will work the neck and shoulders, move on to each arm, and work their way to the legs & feet. Next, you will flip around on the massage table and they will work on the back of the legs and potentially the glutes.
Is 60 minutes enough for a massage? ›In general, while a 60 minute session provides some relaxation and targeted muscle work, it's sometimes a less thorough massage if you are looking to address the whole body including the hands, feet, and scalp.
Should I do a 30 or 60 minute massage? ›
A: I usually recommend that you make your first appointment for an hour. It is hard to assess new tissue and effectively treat someone in 30 minutes. After your first appointment, the time may be adjusted to 30 or 90 minutes depending on your needs. This is not a hard and fast rule however.
How often should get a massage? ›To keep your body in good condition and maintain health, we recommend getting a massage every 3-4 weeks. This will help to prevent injury, pain, and tension build-up in the muscle fibers, as well as address any other issue before it becomes serious.
What is the best time of day to get a massage? ›If you tend to get sleepy from a massage, you should have it as late in the day as possible so that you can just go home afterwards. If you don't want massage to take time out of your day, you can get one early in the morning. It will help you to feel rejuvenated.
What is the 1st rule of massage therapy? ›The first rule of massage therapy is always to obtain informed consent from the patient before starting a session. Informed consent between therapist and patient is critical in ensuring that any massage treatment will be safe, beneficial, and respectful for both parties involved in the session.
Do massage therapists care if you don't shave? ›It is not important to shave before a massage. Your therapist doesn't care or even notice. The only exception to this rule is if you are having Kinesio Taping, then you must do it 24 hours in advance to avoid skin irritation. If less than 24 hours, use clippers only.
What do you wear during a massage? ›It's best to leave heavy fabrics, such as denim or wool, at home and choose lighter clothes that are thin and form-fitting. Some suitable options include t-shirts, tank tops, shorts or sports bras. Even if you prefer to cover up, make sure you've considered the limitations placed on your massage therapist.
What do they touch in a full body massage? ›A 60 minute full body massage typically starts with a head & scalp massage to get you relaxed. Then, they will work the neck and shoulders, move on to each arm, and work their way to the legs & feet. Next, you will flip around on the massage table and they will work on the back of the legs and potentially the glutes.